\n \u00dcmumd\u00fcnya S\u0259hiyy\u0259 T\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131 sevgini x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r siyah\u0131s\u0131na sal\u0131b\n<\/p>\n
\n Bayaqdan ard-arda romantik t\u00fcrk mahn\u0131lar\u0131na qulaq as\u0131ram. Hardasa bir saatdan \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bu hal m\u0259nd\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 duy\u011fular oyatd\u0131. T\u0259bii \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 musiqinin janr\u0131 \u00f6z s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc deyir. Eyni hissl\u0259ri oyatma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 h\u0259d\u0259f se\u00e7\u0259n yan\u0131ql\u0131 ifalar, sevgi dolu s\u00f6zl\u0259r, musiqi t\u0259ran\u0259l\u0259rinin g\u00f6z\u0259g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259z enerjisi insan q\u0259lbini titr\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 qabildir.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u0130yul ay\u0131 olmas\u0131na baxmayaraq hava da \u00e7\u00f6n\u00fcb. Haz\u0131rda Praqadayam v\u0259 havan\u0131n temperaturu m\u00fcsb\u0259t 16 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259dir. G\u00fcn\u0259\u015fi g\u00fcnboyu g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. Bak\u0131da is\u0259 haz\u0131rda 27 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 isti var. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 Praqan\u0131n d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259n havas\u0131 emosiyalar\u0131m\u0131n qar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olub. Buna ona g\u00f6r\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q emosiya ad\u0131 verdim ki, normalda bu q\u0259d\u0259r uzun \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n romantik musiqi acl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131ram. \u0130ndi b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 bu ifad\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q emosiyalar\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0259hvaldan dolay\u0131 bu s\u0259tirl\u0259rd\u0259 yer almaqdad\u0131r. Bilmir\u0259m, t\u0259krar edib bo\u015fba\u011faz adamlar kimi eyni \u015feyl\u0259ri dalbadal yazmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m. N\u0259 is\u0259. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ayd\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir ki, sevgi \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q, d\u0259li-dolu duy\u011fudur v\u0259 onunla ba\u011fl\u0131 xatir\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 h\u0259min hissi k\u00f6r\u00fckl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 xidm\u0259t edir. Xatir\u0259l\u0259r musiqinin qanadlar\u0131 il\u0259 havalan\u0131r v\u0259 s\u0259ni unuda bilm\u0259diyin sevgi \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi co\u011frafiyas\u0131na yenid\u0259n apar\u0131r. Bu hal \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131qd\u0131r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q \u015feyl\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n biz\u0259 \u00e7ox xo\u015f g\u0259lir. \u018flb\u0259t ki, oraya m\u0259ntiqi g\u0259tir\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r biz\u0259 sevgi kimi xo\u015f g\u0259l\u0259n qar\u0131\u015f\u0131ql\u0131qlar\u0131n eyforiyas\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 \u201cNetflix\u201din istehsal etdiyi \u201cNewness\u201d(\u2018Yenilik\u2019) filmin\u0259 baxd\u0131m. Dram janr\u0131nda olan bu kommersiya filmi 21-ci \u0259srin dinamik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n, sevgi v\u0259 seksd\u0259n b\u0259hs edir. \u0130nternet vasit\u0259si il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olan Qabi v\u0259 Martin bir-birin\u0259 tez isinirl\u0259r. Q\u0131sa vaxtda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 sevgi qat\u0131l\u0131r. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m m\u00fcbahis\u0259 v\u0259 dava-dala\u015f sonras\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birin\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edirl\u0259r. H\u0259min g\u00fcn\u00fcn s\u0259h\u0259ri h\u0259r biri etiraf edir ki, ba\u015fqa adamla yat\u0131blar. A\u011fla\u015fma, m\u0259yusluqdan sonra onlar bar\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu hadis\u0259d\u0259n sonra q\u0259rara g\u0259lirl\u0259r ki, bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olacaq v\u0259 ba\u015fqa biri il\u0259 flirt v\u0259 cinsi yax\u0131nl\u0131q etm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 bunu gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, poliqam m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r ba\u015flay\u0131r. (Poliqamiya \u2013 \u00e7oxsayl\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r v\u0259 nikah. Bir f\u0259rdin iki v\u0259 daha art\u0131q adamla m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti)\n<\/p>\n
\n Onlar kimd\u0259n xo\u015flar\u0131 g\u0259ldis\u0259, h\u0259tta bir-birl\u0259rinin g\u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00f6n\u00fcnd\u0259 h\u0259min adamlarla intim yax\u0131nl\u0131q edir, h\u0259rd\u0259n threesome, y\u0259ni, \u00fc\u00e7 n\u0259f\u0259r bir arada sevi\u015firl\u0259r. H\u0259tta bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin d\u0259 i\u00e7in\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t qur\u015fan\u0131r. Onlar illah da n\u0259l\u0259ris\u0259, daha do\u011frusu, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n h\u0259y\u0259canlar\u0131 v\u0259 aktlar\u0131 bir-birind\u0259n gizl\u0259dirl\u0259r. N\u0259 is\u0259, filmd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox yaz\u0131b, baxmaq ist\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259rin h\u0259v\u0259sini \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259yim. Film haqq\u0131nda yazma\u011f\u0131ma s\u0259b\u0259b ordak\u0131 f\u0259rdl\u0259rin q\u0259rib\u0259 v\u0259 m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259b xarakterin\u0259 r\u0259\u011fm\u0259n bir-birin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u00fck\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n sevgisidir. T\u0259bii ki, nihilist \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ged\u0259n bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00e7oxluq sevgi dem\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 bil\u0259r, ancaq h\u0259min c\u00fctl\u00fck b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u0259lilikl\u0259rin\u0259 baxmayaraq bir-birind\u0259n ayr\u0131 qala bilmirdil\u0259r. Sevginin t\u0259rifin\u0259 ehtiyac duymuram. Bu, el\u0259 bir hissdir ki, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 obyekt se\u00e7\u0259n kimi sahibinin b\u0259d\u0259nind\u0259 kimy\u0259vi d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r d\u0259 yarad\u0131r. B\u0259li, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik hormonlar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 bu duy\u011funun ba\u015f qald\u0131rmas\u0131 il\u0259 yaran\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u00dcmumd\u00fcnya S\u0259hiyy\u0259 T\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131 son vaxtlar e\u015fq\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yi, sevgini psixoloji x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r s\u0131ras\u0131na da daxil edib. R\u0259smi t\u0259snifata g\u00f6r\u0259 a\u015fiq olmaq \u201cm\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259y\u0259n v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r, ruhi narahatl\u0131qlar\u201d do\u011furur. H\u0259tta bu \u201cx\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259\u201d ad da verilib \u2013 \u201cF63.9\u201d\n<\/p>\n
\n B\u0259h-b\u0259h ada bax e. Yax\u015f\u0131 ki, F69 deyil.T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr el\u0259yin, dost-tan\u0131\u015fdan kimis\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n, bir az hal-\u0259hval tutursan, ard\u0131nca h\u0259min k\u0259sd\u0259n ortaq tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n nec\u0259 oldu\u011funu soru\u015fursan, o da k\u0259d\u0259rli halda qay\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u201csoru\u015fma e, o yaz\u0131\u011f da \u201cF63.9\u201d olub, ya da F63.9-a yoluxub. X\u0259st\u0259lik yox, sanki q\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 t\u0259yyar\u0259 ad\u0131d\u0131r. Ancaq g\u0259lin etiraf ed\u0259k ki, sevgi b\u0259z\u0259n q\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 t\u0259yyar\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li hallar yarada bilir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00dcmumd\u00fcnya S\u0259hiyy\u0259 T\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131 sevgini x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r siyah\u0131s\u0131na sal\u0131b v\u0259 bu x\u0259st\u0259lik siyah\u0131da alkoqolizm, narkomaniya, kleptomaniya, piromaniyadan sonra yer al\u0131b.\n<\/p>\n
\n Sa\u011f olsunlar, simptomlar\u0131 da qeyd edibl\u0259l\u0259r:\n<\/p>\n
\n – biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n obyekti olmaq haqq\u0131nda z\u0259hl\u0259t\u00f6k\u0259n fikirl\u0259r\n<\/p>\n
\n – \u0259hval-ruhiyy\u0259nin k\u0259skin d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si\n<\/p>\n
\n – \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r verm\u0259nin a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259si\n<\/p>\n
\n – \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yaz\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u0259lm\u0259k – yuxu poz\u011funlu\u011fu\n<\/p>\n
\n – s\u0259pgi v\u0259 impulsiv h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r (t\u0259sirl\u0259r)\n<\/p>\n
\n – arterial t\u0259zyiqd\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259r\n<\/p>\n
\n – ba\u015f a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131\n<\/p>\n
\n – allergik reaksiyalar\n<\/p>\n
\n – \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc saxlama sindromu: \u201cm\u0259n bilir\u0259m ki, o m\u0259ni sevir, amma susur\u201d.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu hallar\u0131n k\u0259skin artmas\u0131 insan\u0131 q\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 t\u0259yyar\u0259 kimi q\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 v\u0259 da\u011f\u0131d\u0131c\u0131 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu hal daha \u00e7ox qeyri-adekvat adamlarda rast g\u0259lin\u0259n hallardand\u0131r. \u00dcmumd\u00fcnya S\u0259hiyy\u0259 T\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131 da antidepressantlar\u0131n sat\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7oxald\u0131b, daha \u00e7ox kommersiya \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevgi kimi g\u00f6z\u0259l hissi x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r siyah\u0131s\u0131na daxil edir.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu duy\u011fu o vaxt x\u0259st\u0259lik s\u0259viyy\u0259sin\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r v\u0259 insanlar\u0131 o vaxt incidir ki, bu duy\u011funun yan\u0131na m\u0259ntiqi qatm\u0131rsan. B\u0259li, bilir\u0259m ziddiyy\u0259tlidir, ancaq bunsuz m\u00fcnasib\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olmur. Bilir\u0259m s\u00f6zd\u0259 \u00e7ox sad\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259nir, ancaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcns\u00fcz d\u0259 deyil. H\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 harmonik v\u0259 keyfiyy\u0259tli \u201cF63.9\u201d arzulay\u0131ram.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n obyekti olmaq haqq\u0131nda z\u0259hl\u0259t\u00f6k\u0259n fikirl\u0259r<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":122638,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_sitemap_exclude":false,"_sitemap_priority":"","_sitemap_frequency":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-196319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-xeberler","infinite-scroll-item","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-33","no-featured-image-padding"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n