{"id":183739,"date":"2017-04-16T17:11:29","date_gmt":"2017-04-16T17:11:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meydan.tv\/article\/azerbaycanda-nikahdankenar-usaqlar-nece-dogulur\/"},"modified":"2017-04-16T17:11:29","modified_gmt":"2017-04-16T17:11:29","slug":"azerbaycanda-nikahdankenar-usaqlar-nece-dogulur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meydan.tv\/az\/article\/azerbaycanda-nikahdankenar-usaqlar-nece-dogulur\/","title":{"rendered":"Az\u0259rbaycanda nikahdank\u0259nar u\u015faqlar nec\u0259 do\u011fulur?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\n T\u0259k anan\u0131n hekay\u0259ti.
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\n G\u00fclnar\u0259 (t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n ad \u015f\u0259rtil\u0259\u015fdirilib) aktivistdir, 36 ya\u015f\u0131 var. O, valideynl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u0259yal\u0259td\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r, be\u015f ya\u015fl\u0131 o\u011ful \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259 ham\u0131 bir-birini tan\u0131y\u0131r, ciddi \u0259xlaq qaydalar\u0131 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr v\u0259 o, \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 qohumlar v\u0259 qon\u015fulara uydurdu\u011fu sad\u0259l\u00f6hv yalanla qoruyur – u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n atas\u0131 onu qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131b, daha sonra is\u0259 onlar\u0131 ataraq \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b gedib.\n<\/p>\n

\n \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 G\u00fclnar\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 r\u0259smi nikah\u0131 olmadan sevdiyi insandan do\u011fub.\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201c25 ya\u015f\u0131mda m\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 qohumlar\u0131mgil\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7m\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm. Ax\u0131 \u0259yal\u0259td\u0259 i\u015f tapmaq v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hans\u0131sa perspektiv qurmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. \u015e\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 musiqi diskl\u0259ri sat\u0131lan d\u00fckanlar\u0131n birind\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ldim, yeni dostlar\u0131m oldu, g\u0259ncl\u0259r h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131na qo\u015fuldum. 30 ya\u015f\u0131m olanda bir o\u011flanla tan\u0131\u015f oldum. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131q. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 nikaha q\u0259d\u0259r intim m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r qada\u011fan olsa da, biz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcasir hesab edib, bu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259ni r\u0259dd etdik. O, m\u0259nim i\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131m\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b el\u0259di. Bu t\u0259l\u0259b bizim \u00f6lk\u0259nin ki\u015fil\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0131radan bir t\u0259l\u0259bdir v\u0259 m\u0259n buna he\u00e7 d\u0259 t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259nm\u0259dim. Sevdiyim insan\u0131 itirim\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn i\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131 oldum. Amma buna baxmayaraq, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra biz ayr\u0131ld\u0131q…\u201d
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\n Hamil\u0259liyin ilk \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259rini G\u00fclnar\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259lik kimi q\u0259bul edib. Qarn\u0131nda a\u011fr\u0131lar, \u00fcr\u0259k bulanma ba\u015flay\u0131b v\u0259 G\u00fclnar\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb ki, bu x\u0259rc\u0259ng \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259ridir. Hamil\u0259 oldu\u011fu a\u011fl\u0131na da g\u0259lm\u0259yib. R\u0259fiq\u0259si h\u0259r ehtimala qar\u015f\u0131 hamil\u0259lik testi el\u0259m\u0259yi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcb v\u0259 testin n\u0259tic\u0259si m\u00fcsb\u0259t olub.\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201cM\u0259n \u00e7ox qorxurdum. Ax\u0131 biz ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. Amma i\u00e7imd\u0259 sevincli bir h\u0259y\u0259can var idi. Bu qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q hissl\u0259r i\u00e7ind\u0259 art\u0131q ke\u00e7mi\u015f say\u0131lan sevgilim\u0259 z\u0259ng vurdum. Hamil\u0259 oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6yl\u0259dim. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yi t\u0259klif el\u0259di. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fck v\u0259 m\u0259ni yan\u0131nda hamil\u0259lik testi el\u0259m\u0259yi m\u0259cbur etdi. O, el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fc ki, m\u0259n onu geriy\u0259 qaytarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259han\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015fmi\u015f\u0259m. Lakin testin m\u00fcsb\u0259n n\u0259tic\u0259sini g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra u\u015faq ist\u0259m\u0259diyini dedi v\u0259 abort el\u0259tdirm\u0259yimi ist\u0259di. Hans\u0131sa bir m\u0259qamda m\u0259n onunla h\u0259tta raz\u0131la\u015fd\u0131m. Ax\u0131 biz evl\u0259nm\u0259s\u0259k, bu u\u015fa\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 qohum-qon\u015fular aras\u0131nda la\u011f h\u0259d\u0259fin\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259c\u0259m, qarda\u015f\u0131m is\u0259 m\u0259ni sad\u0259c\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r. H\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259nim n\u0259 i\u015fim, n\u0259 d\u0259 evim var idi, bu u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na nec\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259 bil\u0259rdim? H\u0259kimin ota\u011f\u0131nda a\u011flama\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131m. Abortdan imtina el\u0259dim. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilim aradan itdi, bir d\u0259f\u0259 z\u0259ng edib dedi ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131 m\u0259nimdi, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259t m\u0259nim boynumad\u0131r. Bel\u0259c\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yimin alt\u0131ndak\u0131 u\u015faqla ortal\u0131qda t\u0259k qald\u0131m\u201d.
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\n Evl\u0259rind\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131 qohumlar\u0131 G\u00fclnar\u0259d\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131blar. Ur\u0259kbulanmalar, hals\u0131zl\u0131q, ba\u015fgic\u0259ll\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259ri – gizlin olan\u0131 a\u015fkara \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131b. Xalas\u0131 ondan hamil\u0259 oldu\u011fun soru\u015fanda G\u00fclnar\u0259 inkar edib. Qarn\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259si s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n G\u00fclnar\u0259 qohumlar\u0131gild\u0259n k\u00f6\u00e7m\u0259li olub. Getm\u0259y\u0259 is\u0259 yeri yox idi.\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201cBir nec\u0259 g\u00fcn yar\u0131tikili binada gec\u0259l\u0259m\u0259li oldum. Sonra qo\u015fuldu\u011fum g\u0259ncl\u0259r h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131ndan bir n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131ma g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259ri dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r\u0259katda ham\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131 bildi. Onlar kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcasir insanlar idi v\u0259 he\u00e7 kim m\u0259ni q\u0131namad\u0131. Ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ev tapd\u0131lar, aktivistl\u0259rd\u0259n biri \u00f6z qohumundan m\u0259ni i\u015f\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259yi xahi\u015f etmi\u015fdi. O, yalandan demi\u015fdi ki, \u0259rim m\u0259ni d\u00f6yd\u00fcy\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015fam. Bel\u0259c\u0259 qalma\u011fa yerim v\u0259 ayl\u0131q maa\u015f problemim h\u0259ll olundu. U\u015faqlar h\u0259r \u00e7\u00fcr d\u0259st\u0259k olurdular, deyirdil\u0259r ki, m\u0259nim d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdiyim u\u015faq \u201ch\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131n \u00f6vlad\u0131\u201d olacaq\u201d.
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\n G\u00fclnar\u0259 hamil\u0259liyi haqq\u0131nda ail\u0259sin\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 dem\u0259mi\u015fdi. Ax\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya nikahs\u0131z u\u015faq g\u0259tirm\u0259k patriarxal ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015fana bil\u0259c\u0259k \u0259n ay\u0131b v\u0259 biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131 hadis\u0259 say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Lakin bir g\u00fcn g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259d\u0259n G\u00fclnar\u0259nin anas\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259lir v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyin \u00fcst\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. O zaman G\u00fclnar\u0259 hamil\u0259liyinin yeddinci ay\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131.\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201cO, el\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131rd\u0131 ki, sank\u0131 m\u0259n \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 tutulmu\u015fdum. Soru\u015fdu ki, niy\u0259 ona \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n dem\u0259mi\u015fdim, o, m\u0259ni aborta aparard\u0131 v\u0259 he\u00e7 kimin bu biabir\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qdan x\u0259b\u0259ri olmazd\u0131. Cavab olaraq dedim ki, el\u0259 m\u0259hz bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ona dem\u0259mi\u015fdim. O, m\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131landa a\u011flad\u0131 v\u0259 yalvard\u0131 ki, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131m hamil\u0259liyim haqda he\u00e7 kimin x\u0259b\u0259ri olmas\u0131n. Sonra e\u015fitdim ki, o, d\u00f6zm\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k atama v\u0259 qarda\u015f\u0131ma h\u0259r \u015feyi na\u011f\u0131l edib. M\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qorxdu\u011fundan onlara ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00fcnvan\u0131 dem\u0259mi\u015fdi. Do\u011frusu, qarda\u015f\u0131m m\u0259ni \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259lmi\u015f, amma x\u00f6\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n tapmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u201d.
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\n U\u015faq do\u011fulan g\u00fcn\u00fc do\u011fum evinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u0259ncl\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczvl\u0259ri topland\u0131lar. H\u0259kiml\u0259r v\u0259 tibb bac\u0131lar\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olan\u0131n anas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 qaynanas\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015furdular. G\u00fclnar\u0259 u\u015faq evind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259fat etdiyini, y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fan bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n is\u0259 m\u0259rhum yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n dostlar\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259mi\u015fdi. G\u00fclnar\u0259nin o\u011flu oldu. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ilkin v\u0259saitl\u0259ri t\u0259\u015fkilatdak\u0131 g\u0259ncl\u0259r toplam\u0131\u015fd\u0131.\n<\/p>\n

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\n U\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7 ayl\u0131q olanda G\u00fclnar\u0259nin anas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yi d\u00f6zm\u0259yib v\u0259 o, rayondan onun yan\u0131na g\u0259lib:\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201cAnam u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 birinci d\u0259f\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 dedi ki, buna bax, n\u0259 balacad\u0131r, el\u0259 bil si\u00e7and\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011fa qulluq el\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. O, tibb bac\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r, u\u015fa\u011fa qulluq haqq\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015feyi bilirdi. M\u0259ni d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259dirdi. O, m\u0259n\u0259 s\u00f6z verdi ki, atam\u0131n v\u0259 qarda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n m\u0259ni q\u0259bul etm\u0259l\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni el\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bir ya\u015f\u0131 olanda, o, b\u0259rk x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259ndi. M\u0259n anama z\u0259ng el\u0259dim. Rayondan g\u0259ldi, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 x\u0259st\u0259xanaya apard\u0131q. Y\u00fcks\u0259k temperatur on g\u00fcn davam edirdi. U\u015faq hals\u0131z idi. Anam \u201cf\u00fcrs\u0259td\u0259n istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k\u201d atama v\u0259 qarda\u015f\u0131ma z\u0259ng el\u0259di, onlara u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n he\u00e7 bir g\u00fcnah\u0131 olmamas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259di v\u0259 bizi q\u0259bul etm\u0259l\u0259rini xahi\u015f etdi. Atam k\u00f6n\u00fcls\u00fcz olaraq bizi q\u0259bul etdi. Amma onun bir \u015f\u0259rti vard\u0131: biz ham\u0131ya m\u0259nim qo\u015fulub qa\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131, daha sonra qa\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131m adam\u0131n m\u0259ni at\u0131b getm\u0259sini dem\u0259li idik…\u201d.
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\n Anas\u0131 G\u00fclnar\u0259ni v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 k\u0259nd\u0259 apar\u0131b. Qarda\u015f\u0131 onu ilk g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 gedib d\u00f6ym\u0259k ist\u0259yib, lakin valideynl\u0259r buna qar\u0131\u015faraq imkan verm\u0259yibl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n

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\n Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Baxmayaraq ki, G\u00fclnar\u0259 valideynl\u0259rinin s\u0259rt n\u0259zar\u0259ti alt\u0131nda ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131. Qon\u015fular v\u0259 qohumlar h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259ti bilmir v\u0259 ham\u0131l\u0131qla u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 q\u0259bul el\u0259yirdil\u0259r. H\u0259, bir d\u0259, G\u00fclnar\u0259y\u0259 ail\u0259nin m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259z- s\u0259rt olaraq qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131.\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201c\u018fsas odur ki, k\u0259ndd\u0259 ail\u0259m biabir olmad\u0131. Biz ax\u0131 m\u0259nim d\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tirm\u0259yimin nec\u0259 olmas\u0131n\u0131 ham\u0131dan gizl\u0259d\u0259 bildik. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, \u0259g\u0259r biz h\u0259qiq\u0259ti dan\u0131\u015fsayd\u0131q, m\u0259nim v\u0259ziyy\u0259tim indikind\u0259n daha bet\u0259r olard\u0131. Y\u0259qin ki, m\u0259niml\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131nda g\u00fcn\u00fc qara olard\u0131…\u201d
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\n \u0130ndi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n 5 ya\u015f\u0131 var. A\u00e7\u0131qd\u0259rili, yara\u015f\u0131ql\u0131 o\u011fland\u0131r. G\u00fclnar\u0259 o\u011fluna ya\u015famaq \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 verdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox x\u00f6\u015fb\u0259xtdir. Dostlar\u0131n\u0131n, g\u0259ncl\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131nda tan\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu g\u0259ncl\u0259rin d\u0259st\u0259yi olmadan onun d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si m\u00fcmk\u00fcns\u00fcz olard\u0131.\n<\/p>\n

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\n \u201cM\u0259nim 31 ya\u015f\u0131m var idi. Kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r yetkin idim, h\u0259yatda n\u0259 ist\u0259diyimi bilirdim. Yax\u015f\u0131 dostlar\u0131m var idi. \u018fg\u0259r onlar m\u0259n\u0259 maddi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259st\u0259k olmasayd\u0131lar, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na ke\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259zdim. Onlar m\u0259n\u0259 ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ev, i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 yer tapd\u0131lar, qarda\u015f\u0131m m\u0259ni \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn axtaranda m\u0259ni gizl\u0259tdil\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r m\u0259nim yerim\u0259 bir az g\u0259nc v\u0259 ya \u0259traf\u0131nda d\u0259st\u0259k ver\u0259n dostlar\u0131 olmayan bir ba\u015fqa qad\u0131n olsayd\u0131, y\u0259qin abort el\u0259y\u0259rdi. V\u0259 yaxud o, daim nifr\u0259t, q\u0131naqdolu bax\u0131\u015flar alt\u0131nda \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc davam etm\u0259li olacaqd\u0131…\u201d
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\n D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sinin verdiyi m\u0259lumata \u0259sas\u0259n, 2012-ci ild\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycanda h\u0259r il 15 faiz u\u015faq nikahs\u0131z do\u011fulur. H\u0259r il onlar\u0131n say\u0131 20.000 v\u0259 27.000 aras\u0131nda d\u0259yi\u015fir. 2015-ci ild\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m 24.038 olub.\n<\/p>\n

\n Yuxar\u0131dak\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259r \u0259halisinin 73%-nin m\u00fcs\u0259lman oldu\u011fu konservativ \u00f6lk\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0259rib\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u0130\u015f oras\u0131ndad\u0131r ki, Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bir nec\u0259 ail\u0259 n\u00f6vl\u0259ri v\u0259 r\u0259smi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r var. Bunlardan birincisi \u2013 ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n \u00f6z ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini r\u0259sm\u0259n qeydiyyatdan ke\u00e7irirl\u0259r, ikinci n\u00f6v- ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n toy el\u0259yir, lakin r\u0259smi nikaha girmirl\u0259r. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u2013 b\u0259y g\u0259lini qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 onlar bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar: n\u0259 toy olur, n\u0259 d\u0259 r\u0259smi nikah.\n<\/p>\n

\n H\u0259r bir halda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin r\u0259siml\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259si qaydalar\u0131 v\u0259 \u201cqanuni do\u011fulan\u201d u\u015faqlar haqq\u0131nda c\u0259miyy\u0259timiz kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259lumatl\u0131d\u0131r. Qanuni halda u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259n analara c\u0259miyy\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n he\u00e7 bir iddia olmur. \u0130kinci v\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc halda do\u011fulan u\u015faqlar qanunla \u201cqanundan k\u0259nar do\u011fulan u\u015faq\u201d kimi tan\u0131y\u0131r. Lakin c\u0259miyy\u0259t bu u\u015faqlar\u0131 qanuni q\u0259bul edir. Onlar\u0131 ail\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 do\u011fulduqlar\u0131ndan ham\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn adi q\u0259bul olunur.\n<\/p>\n

\n T\u0259k alanar hesab olunan qad\u0131nlar \u201cbir s\u0131ra ad\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n\u201d \u2013 ZAQS, toy, qa\u00e7\u0131rma v\u0259 s. birind\u0259n ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259n analar hesab olunur. Y\u0259ni bu ad\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259n v\u0259 sevdiyi (ya da sevm\u0259diyi) insandan u\u015faq do\u011fan analard\u0131r t\u0259k analar. \u00d6lk\u0259d\u0259ki \u00e7ox az sayda ana bu add\u0131m\u0131 atma\u011fa c\u0259sar\u0259t edir. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar\u0131 \u201cbiab\u0131r etdiyi\u201d qohumlar\u0131n q\u0131na\u011f\u0131, ail\u0259nin onlar\u0131 daim izl\u0259m\u0259si, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 sata\u015fmalar, i\u015fd\u0259n qovulma, dostlar\u0131n \u00fcz d\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259si kimi hallar g\u00f6zl\u0259yir. T\u0259k ana olmaq \u201cbiab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131\u201d, \u201cay\u0131b\u201d i\u015f say\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 bu add\u0131m\u0131 atan qad\u0131n \u00f6z ail\u0259sini v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn n\u0259slini p\u0259rt etmi\u015f hesab olunur.\n<\/p>\n

\n \u018fg\u0259r t\u0259k anan\u0131 atas\u0131 v\u0259 ya qarda\u015f\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259yibs\u0259, hans\u0131sa bir s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n abort etm\u0259yibs\u0259, onun d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdiyi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin h\u0259yat yolu g\u00f6zl\u0259yir. El\u0259 hal qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6lm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn anas\u0131n\u0131 on yem\u0259k verm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edirdibl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r bu halda bel\u0259 u\u015faq sa\u011f qalarsa, o zaman u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259hl\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hqir edirl\u0259r, qohumlar\u0131 is\u0259 bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 q\u0259bul el\u0259mirl\u0259r. Baxmayaraq ki, bu u\u015faqlar da qanuni ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 do\u011fulan u\u015faqlar kimi qanun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda b\u0259rab\u0259rdil\u0259r. T\u0259k analar\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131 nadir halda aliment v\u0259 ya v\u0259r\u0259s\u0259lik ala bilirl\u0259r. B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6m\u00fcrboyu bu u\u015faqlar oz atalar\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur qal\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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